Should I move to a new city? The quiz
Big moves feel scary because they matter. Let's look at this one calmly. Your answers stay on your device; nobody else sees them.
The one-year rule
New cities feel lonely for months. Join one regular thing straight away (a team, a class, a club) and give it a full year before you decide it was a mistake.
Questions people ask
How do I know if I should move cities?
When there is a clear gain (work, people, lifestyle) that you cannot get where you are, and you can afford the move and the rent.
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