Should I get married? The quiz
Choices about the people we love are the hardest kind. Go gently, and be honest with yourself. Your answers stay on your device; nobody else sees them.
Questions to ask before marriage
- Do we want children, and how would we raise them?
- How will we handle money: joint, separate or both?
- Where do we want to live in ten years?
- How do we fight, and how do we make up?
- What role will our families play?
Questions people ask
I am not sure if I should get married. Is that normal?
Some nerves are normal. Deep doubt about the person (trust, respect, how they treat you) is not. Separate the two: fear of a big step usually fades when you talk about it; doubt about the person grows.
How do you know you are ready to get married?
When you trust each other completely, have agreed on the big things (kids, money, where to live) and would choose this person even with no pressure from anyone.
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